The moment I realized my youngest was ready for a toddler bed, an avalanche of emotions rushed over me. With a heavy heart and a cart full of excitement, we embarked on a sweet mission to Ikea to pick out his very first mattress. Join me, Katie Fenske, as I share this intimate journey of transitioning my third baby out of the crib, and face the poignant feelings of saying goodbye to his baby stage.
The rollercoaster ride of motherhood is full of transitions, both big and small, and it’s crucial not to lose ourselves amongst them. In this heartfelt chat, we explore the bittersweet moments that come with these changes. From the pride of watching your little one grow up to the nostalgia of moving the stroller out of the garage – I share it all.
Remember, we all burn our first pancake, and it’s okay to feel both joy and sadness as we navigate through the wonderful chaos that is motherhood. So whether you are a first-time mom or a seasoned pro, tune in for an episode that validates your feelings and reassures you that you are not alone.
TIPS FOR TRANSITIONING TO A TODDLER BED
1. Timing is Key: Choose a time to transition when your toddler is emotionally ready. Signs of readiness include showing interest in “big kid” beds, attempting to climb out of the crib, and increased independence.
2. Familiarity is Comfort: Place the toddler bed in the same spot as the crib. This helps create a sense of familiarity and safety in a new sleeping arrangement.
3. Involve Your Toddler: Empower your toddler by involving them in the process. Take them shopping for bedding or let them pick out their new bed, making them feel excited and invested in the transition.
4. Gradual Adjustment: Start by having daytime reading or rest sessions on the new bed. This helps your toddler form a positive association with the bed before they actually sleep in it.
5. Consistent Bedtime Routine: Maintain a consistent bedtime routine to provide a sense of security. A familiar routine can ease the anxiety associated with the change.
6. Safety First: Install safety rails on the toddler bed to prevent accidental falls during the night. This helps your little one feel secure and minimizes any fears they might have.
7. Positive Reinforcement: Praise and reward your toddler for successful nights in the new bed. A sticker chart or a small treat can make them excited about staying in their own bed.
8. Comfort is Key: Ensure your toddler’s new mattress is comfortable and cozy. Let them choose a special stuffed animal or blanket to keep them company during the night.
9. Be Patient: Expect some resistance or setbacks, especially during the initial nights. Stay patient and reassure your child that you’re there to support them.
10. Stay Calm and Confident: Your toddler often takes cues from your behavior. If you’re confident and calm about the transition, they are likely to feel more at ease themselves. If your child gets out of bed, calmly walk them back, place them in the bed and say, “Only mommy or daddy can get you out.
